Encouragement
for Stressed-Out Moms
As a mom, you have to be your own cheerleader
in order to stay strong. You're the one who has to give yourself a pep talk
before you go into battle every day. Its hard work being a mom and it can feel
like no matter what you do, there is never enough time or money. But don't let
these worries get the better of you! Follow this list of positive affirmations
for moms - they'll keep your head up and help remind you that even when things
are tough, there will always be someone by your side through all ups and downs.
First thing in the morning, you may feel
sleepy and groggy. Sometimes it's hard to get that motivation going! I have
found these affirmations a great way to start your day with some inspiration.
These are here just for you - I’m positive they'll give you the push-start
needed on those mornings when everything feels difficult but possible all over
again.
Set a goal.
Life is all about setting and achieving goals,
one after another. Sometimes we forget our goals when we become moms. What’s
something you have wanted to achieve for a long time, but maybe slacked off on?
Whether it’s learning to bake a cake from scratch or losing that next stubborn
20 pounds, whatever your goal is, crush it!
You’ve got this!
You have to wake up every morning and tell yourself
“I’ve got this” When you start the day off thinking “I’ve got this”, it will
help you to feel like you are going to conquer the day, and you will.
“If you have discipline, drive, and
determination...nothing is impossible” Dana Linn Bailey
This positive affirmation piggybacks off of
the last one. With drive and determination paired with discipline, anything can
be achieved. Your goals are within reach if only you try hard enough today! You
will achieve them no matter what anyone says to discourage or sidetrack you
from achieving it in any way shape or form.
A goal without a plan is just a dream.
Start with the end in mind. You have dreams,
now take one of your dreams and make a plan to achieve it. The dream becomes a
goal once you put the plan into action.
Keep going, you are getting there.
You’ve been working so hard on improving and
loving yourself, and maybe it has gotten a little rocky? Keep going! You are
much further than when you started. Don't give up now - your goal is just ahead
of the finish line. Push through to reach that prize at the end because you've
got what it takes
You were not even close before but now look
where you are...you're right there by the finishing point with fewer hurdles
in-between to clear. Hang tight for one more push and then all that work will
pay off big time!
When you feel like quitting, remember why you
started.
You may not feel tough in the moment, but you
are. You made it this far so keep at it until you reach your goal! Never quit
or give up on what is important to you.
I may not be there yet, but I am closer than I
was yesterday.
You are closer than you have ever been and you
will not let yourself down. It is getting tougher but you’ve got this. You may
have a few down days, you may feel worn out, but dig deep and push through.
Tonight you will be one step closer to your goal.
“No influence is so powerful as that of the mother.” -
Sarah Josepha Hale
As a mom, you are the most powerful being on earth. Men,
women, and children are all influenced by their moms. You are the shaper of our
futures. You are the designer of the world. And you are the best mom of all.
Keep this in mind when the going gets tough. When the kids are screaming and
the sink is leaking and you are teetering on the edge, remember this quote.
Behind every great child is a mom who’s pretty sure she’s
screwing it all up.
We have all thought that we are screwing it up. You are
not alone and if you’re worried about this, you’re probably not one of the moms
who is really screwing it up. We do the best we can and we teach our children
everything we are able to. It is amazing what they go on to do and become. You
are doing a great job, no matter how it feels in the moment you are a great
mom.
You can be a mess and a good mom; you are allowed to be
both.
No matter what the mess is, we all have them. This does
not make you a bad mom. We all have messes, finances, relationships,
housekeeping, etc. These things just show us where our strengths and weaknesses
are. These can be overcome and take time. You are a great mom and you are
working on yourself as well as raising a child/ children. You are amazing and
that little mess will soon be a thing of the past!
Your children don’t want a perfect mom, they want a happy
mom.
Being happy and joyful is what your children will remember
about their childhood. The happier you are, the happier your children will be.
Try this out for a day or two and you will see the difference. Smile and show
them you are happy and you will see your children's eyes light up and smile on
their faces.
“To a child’s ear ‘mother’ is magic in any language.” -
Arlene Benedict
Mom is one of the sweetest words you have ever heard and
to your child mother, mom, mama, is magic. The magic that fixes everything. The
magic that makes the boogeyman go away. The magic that makes owies and boo-boos
all better. The magic of a mother’s love is heard in her name.
Something special awaits.
Something special awaits you each day. All you need is to
do is recognize it and make the most of your day. Have a positive attitude
throughout the day and think “today is going to be the best day of my life”.
“When everything seems to be going against you, remember
that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.” - Henry Ford
You've always been able to do so much. You can't and won't
ever let anything slow you down! I know that at this moment, it may not feel
like everything is going your way but don’t give up because as the saying goes
"what doesn’t kill us only makes us stronger."
All of these struggles are making you a better person with
more tools in your toolbox for when things get hard again. And most
importantly...your children will love YOU forever- no matter what happens today
or tomorrow - they'll never forget how amazing their mom was today and every
day after
Today I will be the type of person I would like my
children to become.
Every day we have little ones that are looking up to us.
Our children will model us and do what we do. They don’t always listen and do
what we tell them but they are masters at copying the things we do. Today,
strive to be the person you want them to become.
I accept my children just as they are.
Whew! Sometimes our children try our patience. When this
is occurring, say to yourself “I accept you as you are and for who you are. You
are an amazing human being and you will be successful in whatever it is you are
trying to achieve”. These words have helped me so many times and I am sure they
will help you, too.
I love my kids even when I don’t really like them.
Unpopular opinion: most moms have moments where they just
plain do not like their children. Listen. Whether you admit it or not, you know
sometimes you just don’t like the things they do. We have all been there and we
will still love our children no matter what.
As moms, we are often hard on ourselves and give up when
things get tough. It can be challenging to find time for yourself and still
take care of the needs of your children. Sometimes it feels like you are a
short-order cook, with everyone in the family demanding their own special meal!
One day at a time, just keep doing what you're doing. You are doing a great job
mom!